They are disrespectful to each other, using terms like “Shut up!” or “You can’t do anything right!” Their arguments go around in circles, and they only end because one person becomes exhausted from all the yelling and screaming.

4. You both prioritize each other

As you go about your day, your thoughts turn to your partner. If you have a big decision to make, you consult with your partner. You seek your partner’s opinion on your own projects and plans. Your partner’s happiness and well-being are a number-one concern for you.

To keep your relationship healthy and stable , you find ways to remind your partner how much you love them and how grateful you are that they are in your life.

From brewing his first-morning cup of coffee to a fantastic neck massage before she goes to bed at night, you show your gratitude through physical touch, verbal and written communication, and a soft, unexpected word of love.

6. You are deeply committed to the relationship

Both of you agreed prior to marriage that divorce would never be an option. This knowledge lends stability to your relationship, allowing you to work through moments of difficulty knowing that even during the rough patches, you will always have each other to rely upon.

7. There is a foundation of trust between you

A stable relationship sits on a bedrock of trust. You and your partner are 100% honest and genuine with each other. There is no jealousy between you.

You can be open, vulnerable, and authentic with each other. Whatever fears or emotions you share with your partner, you know he will always love you and care for you. Continue reading →