Excerpt : “So if you’re both standing around somewhere, waiting in line at the store or waiting to be served at a bar (even if you are using one of the hookup apps that actually work ), just dive in. Make a comment about your immediate surroundings, the new drink menu, the number of cashiers they have or something that just happened. If she wants to talk, she’ll add to the conversation. If not, you won’t have to stand around too long afterwards.”

50 Incredible Things To Talk About With Your Crush

Excerpt : “The thing about cold reading and guessing is that you’ll never go wrong with it. If you get it wrong, she will correct you, and perhaps add to it. If you are spot on, they’ll likely to think that you’re quite perceptive and may engage with you in conversation because of that. One time I got most of my cold reads right by chance by guessing a girl was half Japanese and studied at the University of London. She reacted positively and was curious how did I know so much. I followed up by teasing that I stalk her daily on Facebook and Instagram.”

None of the women clicked “Next” on me either. In fact, they were all friendly and excited to talk to me from the very start. Sometimes, we’d both use the text chat function, then the woman would begin talking into the microphone when she felt more comfortable. Other women were excited to say “Hi” into the microphone straight away.

Either way, 100% of the women were open and ready for a meaningful conversation. It made a pleasant change from mainstream dating apps where so many women are too lazy to put more than half a dozen words together if they respond at all.

Just under half of the women gave me their contact details

It could have been more than this, but I really did try to rush some of my conversations towards a quick numerical climax. Continue reading →